Why I practice being financially independent despite not FI yet...and why you should too

summerhouse

On the days that I am not working at my 9-5 job, I like to practice being financially independent. Why? Because I think it's very important to practice this lifestyle that we are trying to achieve.

Therefore, on weekends,  I am practicing being financially independent. This also means when I am taking personal time off from work, on holidays, or parental leave, I am practicing being financially independent.

How do I practice being financially independent?

  • I spend time with my kids and play with them
  • Mrs. T and I work on the yard & vegetable garden

garden

  • I do any house upkeep work
  • I sit down with Mrs. T and talk about our lives and discuss our dreams
  • I spend quality time with Mrs. T when the kids are sleeping
  • I look at our travel map and dream about where to go next

20150126_201839

(Where Mrs. T and I have been together...a work in progress)

  • We go swimming at the local aquatic centre
  • I look after the kids so Mrs. T can get some alone time
  • I work on my photography business

portrait 6

mg_4835

mg_7001

mg_8891-edit

mg_1238

  • We go explore outside
  • I think about this blog and write articles
  • We travel to another country and explore the country

Manarola Italy

London city hall

Hiroshima 2

  • We go for road trips
  • I wake up without an alarm and have no set schedule for the entire day (in reality, kids are our alarms these days...)
  • I read other personal finance/investing blogs
  • Mrs. T and I sit down for an extended coffee/tea & chocolate hygge
  • I work on our cookbook business
  • I play Duplo with Baby T1.0 without worrying what to do next
  • I read stories and sing songs to my kids
  • Mrs. T and I talk about where we want to travel and make travel plans
  • Not checking my phone
  • I go out and take pictures

summerhouse2

3715040857_8f09acff01_b

3902948010_fe421b3fe2_b

3939586801_7cea64eaff_b

  • I sit down and watch a movie with Mrs. T
  • We go for a long walk along the beach
  • I spend time with my parents and brother
  • Read books that I haven't read

Basically I go through my non-working days as if I am already financially independent. I don't think about how much money I need to make, I don't think about how many more years I need to work to become financially independent, and I don't talk about what financially independent would be like. I am already financially independent.

Why do I practice being financially independent on non-working days?

  • It keeps me motivated to work hard toward my goal of being financially free one day. I remind myself the reasons for saving and investing money.
  • I get a taste what being financially free is like. This only makes me wanting the real thing.
  • I get to decide my own schedule
  • The family understands the why's of financial independence
  • Getting a deeper appreciation of how valuable time is
  • Learning what creates and brings happiness
  • Understand that we don't have to be financially free to do things that we enjoy. Financially independence is no the end game.

Please excuse me as I go back to practice financially independent, it's time for me to read Hop on Pop to Baby T1.0.

Dear readers, do you practice being financially independent?

You Might Also Like

41 Comments

  • Reply
    DiviCents
    October 24, 2016 at 7:43 am

    Very nice. I love you photos.

    The wife and I do the same sort of thing when we have days off together. We look for free or cheap stuff going on and try to hit it up (like the free concerts at the PNE over the summer)

    I also like the idea of putting a travel map up in the house and Highlight the places we have been and the places we want to go.

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 24, 2016 at 3:01 pm

      Hi DivCents,

      Thank you for your kind words. Free concerts at the PNE is a really good way to enjoy your time and not spend any money (assuming you can avoid all the expensive food items). The travel map that we have is for places that both Mrs. T and I have been together. Would have been more crossed out if for me alone... but doing both of us to keep us inspired to travel more.

  • Reply
    Our Next Life
    October 24, 2016 at 10:03 am

    I love this -- it sounds a lot like what I call my "unstructured early retirement dress rehearsal" days! We used to overschedule our weekends just like the weekdays, but we've now switched entirely to letting the days be more self-directed, like our time in ER will be. It's a wonderful taste, but like with you, it just makes us crave the real thing even more! 🙂

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 24, 2016 at 3:03 pm

      It's definitely very similar to the early retirement dress rehearsal. Practicing makes us crave for the real time for sure.

  • Reply
    dividendsandhobbies
    October 24, 2016 at 10:12 am

    They always say perfect practice makes it easier so starting practicing like you are FI before you hit it helps out.

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 24, 2016 at 3:04 pm

      Practice definitely make it easier. The more we practice the more we get a sense what our FI life would be.

  • Reply
    Matt @ Optimize Your Life
    October 24, 2016 at 11:25 am

    This is a great outlook. I used to do the standard approach of working all day and then watching TV or playing games whenever I wasn't at work. Once I got on the FI track I started spending more of my free time picking up hobbies and doing things that I would do if I were FI. Why wait to experience those things when we can get a head start now?

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 24, 2016 at 3:05 pm

      I guess I was like that when I was younger, before I figure out my goal of achieving FI. Now I do things that I enjoy instead of wasting my time doing activities that doesn't improve me as a human being.

  • Reply
    [email protected]
    October 24, 2016 at 11:52 am

    Agree with ONL that this is a dress rehearsal for FIRE. Weekends are what everyone looks forward too. I wish I could say that weekends are the 2 days that we practice being FI, but more likely than not, weekends include things we couldn't do during the week because we aren't FI! There are errands, visiting both sets of parents who want to see the grandkids, etc. Having the extra time from being FIRE would definitely help in not making the weekends feel so rushed.

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 24, 2016 at 3:06 pm

      I definitely looking forward to weekends... I think it's a shame that we have to do 9-5 jobs to have free time to do things that we enjoy. It should be the other way around - get to do things we enjoy all the time and have the choice to work if you really want to. That's the power of FI.

  • Reply
    Mike Drak
    October 24, 2016 at 12:57 pm

    Tawcan i love your life style and the great relationship with you wife and kids. Please, Never, Never change!!!

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 24, 2016 at 3:07 pm

      Thank you Mike!

  • Reply
    ambertreeleaves
    October 24, 2016 at 2:41 pm

    Great post: that is how life should be: do things you want to do because you like them. We also try to be like that in weekends, we might just book them too full. Then again, that is what I would like my post FI days to look like: be busy with things I love.

    On your photography: Great pictures! It is a long outstanding to do of mine to go out again and make pictures with models. I have my eye set on a course (probably too much commitment right now) or a photography project with a friend of mine: fingers crossed.

    On the travel map: Love It: I got one for my 40th birthday... I will write something about it.

    Enjoy your T1.0 time

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 24, 2016 at 3:08 pm

      That's the power of being FI - do things you like to do, not because someone/your employer tells you to.

      It's fun taking pictures, courses are worth it if they can improve your photography skills.

  • Reply
    Chris Darkes
    October 24, 2016 at 3:18 pm

    Your photos are stunning, your mindset is focused, and your actions are being reinforced daily. Keep up the amazingly positive outlook on life and everything it has to offer!

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 9:58 pm

      Thank you Chris!

  • Reply
    [email protected]
    October 24, 2016 at 4:08 pm

    What jumped out to me right away is that you don't fill weekends with "side gigs" just to speed up your journey to FI. I love how you have such clear priorities and find that balance in life! I envision a very happy family with kids who are not begging for your attention because you are buried in your work (or phone). Love it (and the pictures too!)

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 9:59 pm

      I could fill up my weekends with side gigs just to speed up my journey to FI but I'd be missing quality time with my family. Needed to find balance in life. 🙂

  • Reply
    Dividend Hustler
    October 24, 2016 at 6:15 pm

    Thanks for the article Tawcan. Being a family man with kids just like yourself, I totally get where youre going and what you want. Keep up the great work Tawcan, you got this game won bud. Enjoy the little ones and the other half. They make our journey special. Cheers bro.

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 10:00 pm

      Thanks Tyler. Kids and supportive wife definitely make our journey more special.

  • Reply
    misterslm
    October 24, 2016 at 6:47 pm

    Yeah I definitely think it's important to "practice" the lifestyle. It's a massive shift from working full-time to having your entire life to yourself, and you honestly do need some practice at it.

    BTW last last pic, is that down Granville St? When was that taken?

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 10:01 pm

      Apparently quite a high percentage of people die a year or two after their retirement. The transition from working full time to full retirement is too harsh for some people because they are not used to it.

      Yes last picture is Granville Street downtown. I think it was probably taken like 7 or so years ago.

  • Reply
    Vivianne
    October 24, 2016 at 8:01 pm

    What a great post. I really enjoy your punch line that you wake up with no alarm and the reality hits with 2 little humans are doing their thang ... hahah!

    Sure, I'm financially independence. I can retire for less, or continue to work for more. LOL 🙂 I can retire in Southeast Asia and continue to save off of my current income or continue to be here and travel 6 weeks/year, or taking many mini vacations over the weekends or 4 days weekends. ... well at least until we have a baby, we'll be more like the Tawcans. LOL 🙂

    I love the garden, but 1 advice though, don't make the garden too close to the house, there will be tons of bugs. I'm having to remove my garden this year. Next year it will be as far away from my main house as possible to avoid the bugs.

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 10:02 pm

      Great garden tip. Unfortunately we don't have that much land so can't make it anywhere further from the house. We actually don't have that many bugs, which we're grateful.

  • Reply
    Finance Solver
    October 24, 2016 at 8:15 pm

    I've never actually thought to practice being financially independent. That's so true, if we don't know what we're expecting, we might actually end up very disappointed in the end if we do actually reach the coveted status. Great idea! This is on my list of to-do things for 2017 =)

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 10:03 pm

      It's a great idea to practice so you know what the real thing feels like. 🙂

  • Reply
    Mr Defined Sight
    October 25, 2016 at 12:27 pm

    I echo the other statements about the beautiful photos. Stunning! I try to practice FI every chance I get! I'm a firm believer in that time is the most valuable thing we have. Have to make the most of it!

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 10:03 pm

      Thank you! Time is definitely the most valuable thing that we have. 🙂

  • Reply
    Maggie
    October 25, 2016 at 7:14 pm

    This is great (and I love all the awesome pictures!). If you can't learn to disconnect while in your working years, you'll have a hard time leaving work when it's time!

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 10:03 pm

      Exactly and thank you!

  • Reply
    Dividend Diplomats
    October 25, 2016 at 8:47 pm

    Tawcan,

    Man, love this article. Would you say that you are basically doing the things in full that truly make you happy then on the weekends? No strings attached, right?

    When did you take time to find out what really makes you happy and how are you establishing your life to have more of that? Just curious! (Outside of normal financial freedom pursuit of increasing income > expenses; I mean more along the lines of - where you live, where you work/have worked, etc..) Any times would be great.

    Keep writing, love this stuff and your layout to your site, by the way, is clean & sharp. Thanks for this article.

    -Lanny

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 26, 2016 at 10:04 pm

      Thank you Lanny, glad that you enjoyed reading this type of article. I try to break away from the usual investing articles from time to time.

  • Reply
    Stealthy Wealth
    October 31, 2016 at 10:48 pm

    Hate to be picky, but typo in the heading 🙂

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      October 31, 2016 at 11:08 pm

      Oh boy that was embarrassing. Thank you for pointing out!

  • Reply
    Dividends Down Under
    November 2, 2016 at 6:14 pm

    Tawcan, that sounds like a wonderful life to me. That's how i viewed things too - on the weekend I was living exactly how I wanted to, the other 5 days I was working on. I'd say it's the same now, except there's a lot of studying involved.

    Tristan

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      November 3, 2016 at 11:32 am

      It is a wonderful life, just hoping I can do this on full time basis soon. 🙂

  • Reply
    Weekend Reads: Week of November 5 – Freedom from the Daily Grind
    November 5, 2016 at 8:28 am

    […] Why I Practice Being Financially Independent Despite Not FI Yet… And Why You Should Too by Tawcan. On the days that he is not working at his 9-5 job, he likes to practice being financially independent. Why? Because he thinks it’s very important to practice this lifestyle that we all are trying to achieve. […]

  • Reply
    Pretend To Be Financially Independent To Stick To Your Money Goals | Lifehacker Australia
    November 7, 2016 at 11:01 pm

    […] WHY I PRACTICE BEING FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT DESPITE NOT FI YET...AND WHY YOU SHOULD TOO [Tawcan] […]

  • Reply
    Financial Samurai
    November 8, 2016 at 9:20 am

    Very cool you have a photography business. It's funny, b/c I have a friend who used photography as a way to pick up women. It was very effective!

    The biggest difference w/ being FI and not FI is choice of not having to deal w/ people you don't like to deal with. That's been the greatest point of happiness for me.

    Sam

    • Reply
      Tawcan
      November 9, 2016 at 4:37 pm

      Very interesting point Sam about not having to deal with people you don't like to deal with. That's the power of FI.

  • Reply
    The 7 Personal Finance Articles We Loved This Week
    December 1, 2016 at 12:38 pm

    […] 2. Why I Practice Being Financially Independent When I’m Not – Tawcan […]

  • Leave a Reply

    %d bloggers like this: